The back-up guy is that guy in your life who is more than a friend but less than a boyfriend. You may have slept with him or not -you call each others
Whatever you do, don’t ask him to be your back up!
He may get a little jealous
The back up guy in your life may have come about by accident. However, understand that most successful relationships occur between best friends. If your back up guy is your best friend – you might be surprised how well things could work out between the two of you. So many people spend a lifetime searching for that perfect someone or something – only to realize decades too late that it was there all along.
loving someone is loving someone! No matter who you find in your travels, that person will have flaws and as time goes on – it is the people who can be your friend first that make the best life partners. Who knows, the back up guy may be just what you always needed and wanted.